Money Diaries: #2 Week before Christmas

This will definitely be an abnormal week as it was the lead up to Christmas, and T and I celebrated our anniversary. T and I share expenses now so everything is charged to our joint account (cash and credit) unless otherwise stated. I’m not tracking T’s own spend from our joint account though, as I just don’t track that! I’m sure I spend a lot more money than he does, in any case!

Day 1: Monday 17 December

I prepare lunch for T and myself – a sandwich each and some carrots and sugar snaps I prepared the night earlier. I also prepare my breakfast to take to work (cut up an orange with yoghurt), and make a coffee to take and drink after lunch (I don’t like our work coffee beans so if I can be bothered in the morning, I just take my own in an insulated mug).

On Mondays, I drive to work so I can then visit my parents and eat dinner with them after work.

At work, I add some muesli to my fruit and yoghurt. I keep around 3 serves in a small jar at work so I am able to add it just before eating it. I don’t like soggy muesli.

For lunch, I eat what I brought, and then drink my coffee. I forgot to bring snacks today and struggle a bit. I don’t have any snacks in my desk drawer either. Sad times.

After work, I drive to my parents’ house. Mum cooks a feast (as always) as though it’s someone’s birthday. I can tell my parents really enjoy our family dinners, so I let them go overboard. Mum gives me some cash to pay for her half of Dad’s Christmas present (snow pants from Macpac) and a dress I recently ordered from J. Crew because she didn’t know what to get me for Christmas and insisted on “buying” it for me when the package arrived at her house. She then told me I had to bring it back to her so she could wrap it and put it under her tree. This means in total I moved it back and forth four times, haha! (Since I moved into T’s apartment and his building doesn’t have a concierge like my building, I send all my parcels to a parcel locker. Unfortunately my research indicated that the courier J. Crew used would not deliver to parcel lockers. In those rare instances, my parents are happy to accept my parcels. Why is online shopping still so difficult in Australia?!)

I sit through the first half of Home Alone (LOVE IT!) and then make myself leave as it gets late. I drive home.

Day 2: Tuesday 18 December

I prepare breakfast with banana and yoghurt this time, and make my coffee to take to work. I add my muesli at work. T did not tell me he didn’t want to take lunch (he had a work Christmas event), so my weekday lunch plans are thrown off somewhat. I decide to just buy today and pack our two lunches the next day. I remember to bring a snack today. I want to bring fruit but I poke the peaches and they’re definitely not ripe yet. I pack a small serving of biscuits as emergency snacks.

I take the train to work. I buy 4-week public transport passes and let T use it on weekdays when I drive. He works one suburb outside of the CBD, so usually only rides the tram through the free city zone and then alights at the end of the free zone and walks several blocks to his work so his transport is free (unless the weather is shocking or he has a really long day). I work in the suburbs now so public transport is a must. Driving would actually be cheaper since work is within 10km of my house, but taking the train is more time efficient if I don’t want to arrive early, and better for the environment. I’m usually at work after 9am. It’s a very relaxed environment.

For lunch, I buy a mini cherry, spinach and ricotta quiche and a mini spinach and ricotta pastry from a nearby gourmet food store, deli and bakery. It wasn’t the best choice and a bit much. This place is always really expensive but I didn’t feel like sushi today. I drink my own coffee. $15.45

I decide to buy a white water kayaking experience. It sounds awesome even if I’ll be miserable when I’m soaked, haha. I book it for the Friday during the Christmas break (forced break for me). We are always talking about doing cool and new things, but never actually doing them. This sounds like a great plan to me. I’ll surprise T later (today’s our 5th anniversary) even though I don’t consider it a gift. I don’t think we need to get each other gifts. Unfortunately I receive an email from the company a few hours later saying the date was labelled as available in error. I’m upset (a few days later we book it in for the start of January). $118 (personal account)

I email Jo Malone because part of my friend’s Christmas present was ordered late November and arrived at the Melbourne sorting facility at the end of November but hasn’t moved since. Of course being Australia Post, they did not respond when I opened a lost item enquiry a week later. T said I needed to jump up and down some more, and also make it Jo Malone’s responsibility. So I email Jo Malone asking if they could do anything for me. They respond almost immediately saying I could pick something else out and they’d send to me. The item (one of JM’s Christmas gifts) was long sold out, and I had since purchased some things from Sephora to replace the JM items for my friends gift, so I pick out a candle since it was closest in price. I tell the JM customer representative and offer to pay the price difference, but they said it would be posted and the price difference waived. I am super impressed by the customer service at Jo Malone, especially as it’s not their fault.

I purchase discounted tickets to Artvo, a ‘trick art’ gallery I’ve been meaning to visit for a long time. They’re usually $28 but I get them for $18 each. $36

I leave work early to get to the post office to pick up a package before they shut. The parcel lockers are all full so I have to collect from the counter, which is super inconvenient! I wish there were more parcel lockers! I take the train, which is stalled (as always) and rush to the post office. I make it before close and there is a long line of people waiting to pick up parcels. After I get my two parcels, I meet up with T and we walk home together. I drop off my stuff, change bags and grab a shawl.

We take a tram (T validates his pass today) to “Tempura Hajime”, a 12-seat tempura omakase restaurant. We both pick the more expensive tempura and sushi course ($115) and order a drink ($13). The food is nice and actually I wasn’t that full at the end. It isn’t amazing though, and I probably wouldn’t go out of my way to recommend it. T thinks we had nicer tempura at a simple lunch place on a tiny island in Japan… Our bill is an extravagant $256 and we argue over whether to tip and how much (settle of $15). $271

We tram back home.

Day 3: Wednesday 19 December

I make a sandwich and a heap of vegetables for our lunches. I am pleased to find one peach is ripe, so I cut that up and pack yoghurt and muesli for breakfast. I also take a banana but skip making coffee.

I take the train to work and same back home.

Once I get into the city, I wander around a little bit. I walk past a Koko Black pop-up store and decide to go inside. I get handed some free chocolate and then decide to buy some of my favourite Koko Black chocolate, Tasmanian Leatherwood Honeycomb. For 150g, $16.50

I get home and T is on day 2 of cooking his infamous pasta sauce (he makes a huge Le Creuset pot of pasta sauce over, typically, two nights). He started on Monday and is finishing it off today. We eat it with pasta and pack it for lunch too. Looks like it’s a small batch this time and we’ll get four more serves out of it (eight total). I also cut up some peaches for us to eat.

Day 4: Thursday 20 December

I make a coffee to take, cut up a banana to have with yoghurt and muesli for breakfast, and also cut up an orange and peach to eat throughout the day.

I take the train to and from work.

As I’m heating up my pasta lunch, a colleague whips out an apricot cake for her birthday. So I eat pre-lunch cake and then my lunch. It’s a lot of food…

After I get home, we eat more pasta with T’s pasta sauce. He packs two lunches as well and we are pleased that at least there’s two sauce serves left to freeze for rainy days. I also have some ice cream.

Day 5: Friday 21 December

I cut up a peach for breakfast with yoghurt and muesli, cut up an orange for snacking, make a coffee to take, and take my pasta lunch. I drive to work because I may need to pick up my mum from a surgery she is having later in the day.

Update from that missing Jo Malone parcel. I get a tracking notification that it was sent back to the seller because I didn’t pick it up! I phone Australia Post (20 minutes on hold) to ask what the heck is up. Apparently it was never scanned in when it reached my post office, hence I was never made aware. Then AusPost somehow forgot to respond to my lost item enquiry. Then some three weeks later it got automatically sent back! To their credit, the representative I was speaking to thought it was a unbelievably huge ****-up and profusely apologised to me. She said the company would be able to just send it back to me and she even transferred me $15 for the inconvenience. (The following Monday, the Jo Malone representative I was emailing said the package would indeed be sent back to me, and to keep the extra candle as a guesture of goodwill when I offered to pay for it! At the end of the day I somehow came away happy with the excellent service, a free candle and money…!)

Mum is staying overnight in the hospital so I drive home. Dad will pick her up the next morning.

For dinner, I make okonomiyaki with cabbage, mushroom, carrot, potato and egg. This is my second attempt and not as good as my first attempt, which turned out really well.

Day 6: Saturday 22 December

It’s a slow morning and we only leave the house after midday. We drive to have brunch at Bawa. I have a salmon gravlax dish and T has the chilli scrambled eggs dish and a latte. My salmon gravlax is an awful dish, and the chilli scramble was always our favourite in Melbourne but today it’s not as good as before. We probably won’t come back here. I lost the receipt so do not have itemised costs. There was a 10% weekend surcharge. $47.30

We go to the Bunnings Warehouse next door (partly why we chose to visit Bawa) because I need to purchase a replacement globe for my Airbnb. $9.30 (personal account for Airbnb and not included in total)

We head to South Melbourne. I need to start shopping for everything I am making for Christmas day lunch and dinner (the former is hosted by T’s Aunt and the latter by my Mum), hence our grocery buys over the next two days are not typical of our usual grocery shopping habits, which usually involves hoarding things only when they are at their lowest unit price (I have a strange talent of being able to remember unit prices on almost everything we usually buy…). This applies less to fresh foods – I will begrudgingly buy fruits and vegetables that are not on sale, haha.

The things I need to buy for that I don’t already have ingredients for are a fruit salad and a mango cake. I look at mangoes in Woolworths so I can time them to be perfect by Tuesday (I need some ripe and some a little underripe). I buy 7 mangoes ($1.80 each), 1kg of carrots ($1) and 200g of fancy blueberries ($6.50!). I have a $10 of rewards credit that I use off the $20.10 total, and pay the rest on a 5% discount gift card (we buy everything under the Woolworths family on gift cards pre-purchased at 95% value). $10.10 but really ~$9.60

We walk across to Dan Murphy’s because the only gift left to buy is something for my Uncle. I pick a white wine. We pay using the 5% gift card. $19.99 but really ~$19

I decide we might as well also visit Coles because I want peaches for my fruit salad and they probably need the extra day to ripen (we otherwise will do our major grocery shop on Sunday as usual), but they didn’t look very nice at Woolworths. I buy ~800g peaches ($3.50/kg), ~1kg oranges ($4.90/kg) and a packet of reindeer ice cream sticks because I got an offer to redeem them for free (otherwise $4). $7.80

For dinner, I booked Hell of the North, one of my favourite restaurants in Melbourne. We haven’t visited in a couple of years and want to make sure it’s still excellent. It’s funny because I rather dislike French food, but I adore everything here! We drive there. T wants to get the chef’s menu ($75/head) so we do that because it’s Christmas (I much prefer a la carte – $75 is a lot, we already had a super fancy meal earlier the week, and the last time we had the chef’s menu here we could barely move…). We also order a cocktail ($18) each. The food was impeccable and divine. Our bill comes to $188 with an included $2 donation to feeding those in need. We spent way too much on food this week and it makes me anxious. We tip $12 so it rounds to $200 but it turns out there’s also a credit card surcharge!! $203.10

Day 7: Sunday 23 December

We go to the florist and I pick three flowers to make a bouquet for my Mum. $40

We go visit my parents. Mum is doing poorly and couch-ridden after her surgery. I send T out to get some supplies for a cranberry vodka punch I am making for Christmas dinner so we can just leave them here. I also struggled to find half pineapples yesterday (I don’t want to accidentally pick a whole pineapple that is underripe and half pineapples are easier to time because you can see inside already) so I get him to hunt that down at the local grocery stores too.

T successfully finds half a pineapple at Coles. $1.90

T also gets 2 1.25L bottles of lemonade ($0.75 each) and 2 1.5L bottles of cranberry juice ($3.80 each) at Woolworths for the punch. He pays with a 5% gift card. $9.10 but really ~$8.65

After leaving my parents’ house, we go to Huff Bagelry for a quick lunch. We get our usual “Autumn Brekky” bagels (THE BEST) ($11 each) and T gets a latte ($3.80). $25.80

We also fill up petrol because petrol predictions say we are sitting at the low point on the price curve. We fill unleaded 98 (140.9c/L) and use our 4c/L discount. We pay using our 5% gift card (effectively around 130c/L after all discounts). $63.06 but really ~$59.90

We go to Woolworths to do our weekly grocery shop. We always do it on Sunday but this time we buy ingredients for Christmas lunch and dinner dishes, and don’t buy much for ourselves. I buy ingredients for the mango cake I am making and more fruit for the fruit salad. For ourselves, we only pick up some vegetables. I lost the receipt and can’t really remember what we purchased so I won’t bother trying. We pay with our 5% gift card. $39.44 but really ~$37.47

For dinner, we go to visit T’s parents. We usually eat with them every Sunday night. They say we are going out for dinner instead of eating at home. We eat at a Chinese restaurant and T’s parents kindly pay. We return back to their house to chat and eat fruit – YUM!

Total spend: $917.47

I hope you had a wonderful end of year season and New Year’s. The day after the end of this money diary (Christmas Eve), I ended up sending my Mum to the emergency department. She returned home a few hours later and is now much better. She still insisted on going ahead with Christmas dinner but was unable to do anything. With the combined effort of my Grandma, T and myself (but mostly my amazing Grandma), we ended up making pretty much the whole dinner for ten and I think it meant a lot to my Mum that we were all able to be together.

Beauty: David Jones Deluxe Beauty Edit

A few weeks ago I got an email from David Jones about the David Jones Deluxe Beauty Edit, which was described as a two-day online exclusive. I promptly purchased two – the value for $39.95 looked really good and lately I am having a real problem with my obsession for mini and travel size beauty products (to try and to hoard for travelling!). I figured the second one could be a gift. About 6 hours later I received an email that the order could not be fulfilled. I was pretty annoyed because I had ordered it within twenty minutes of receiving the email. I clicked through to check if it was sold out, but noticed I was still able to add it to my cart. So I decided there was no harm to try again. I ordered three this time because I wanted to gift two away! On the internet later, I read that lots of people had trouble buying the product (typical Australian online retail), but in fact it was also available instore despite what the email said. Fortunately my latter order of three bags arrived in the mail a few days later.

Despite seeing the pictures of the contents, I was honestly blown away by the twenty products. I thought it was interesting that it was mostly skincare and no makeup. The items were very generous and from a really good range of (reasonably high-end) brands.

I splurged on my first ever advent calendar last year – the Look Fantastic beauty advent calendar. I also got it for my friend, who had so little control that she opened everything in the span of three days! While it was fun to open all the new products, I couldn’t justify buying one this year, especially as I an uninterested in half of the items in the LF calendar, which has gone up in price significantly. The problem with all the makeup products in advent calendars is they take longer to use up and are often things I don’t use, so a lot of them have not been worthwhile to me. Advent calendars overall are very expensive, and the ones that look good to me are exorbitantly priced (even if they contain 2-4 times the value). I think the DJ Deluxe Beauty Edit was by far better than most advent calendars in contents and value, and would have been great to use to hand-make a beauty advent calendar. It’s not packaged extravagently as an advent calendar, but I’m more interested in the bag (one can never have enough toiletry bags!) and contents rather than lots of cardboard, so it’s a win in my books! Because it’s skincare-heavy, I’m pretty sure I will be able to use everything. I’m super impressed and will be looking out for a similar offering from David Jones next year (hopefully)!


Guerlain Abeille Royale Daily Repair Serum (5mL)
Shiseido Essential Energy Moisturising Cream (10mL)
Clarins lip comfort oil in ‘Candy’ (2.8mL)
Sampar ‘Too Much to Dew’ Midnight Mask (15mL)
Lancome Genifique Youth Activating Cream (5mL)
Khiels Midnight Recovery Concentrate (4mL)
Ella Bache Eternal Beautifying Eye Cream (3mL)
Oribe Gold Lust Dry Shampoo (43mL)
L’Occitane Immortelle Reset Serum (5mL)
philosophy Purity Made Simple Pore Extractor Clay Mask (5mL)
Cremorelab Mineral Treatment Essence (15mL)
Cremorelab Fresh Water Gel (15mL)
Elizabeth Arden Advanced Ceramide Capsules Daily Youth Restoring Serum (7 capsules)
Molton Brown Vetiver & Grapefruit Bath and Shower Gel (30mL)
MAC Prep+Prime Skin (6mL)
Weleda Skin Food (10mL)
Clinique Take the Day Off Cleansing Balm (15mL)
Narciso Rodriguez ‘Narciso Rouge’ EDP (4mL)
Carolina Herrera ‘Good Girl’ EDP (7mL)
Versace ‘Dylan Blue’ EDP (5mL)
A $10 beauty gift card (on purchases over $100 on brands included in the bag) and complimentary consults/treatments at Shiseido, shu uemura, Clinique, and L’Occitane

Shopping for: Sneakers

A couple of years ago I purchased the Nike Juvenate grey trainers because I liked the “sock trainer” look. I wore them for about a year but I would say I hated them after about one month. The fabric meant it would get get absolutely soaked if the tiniest drop of water touched it – they would get soaked through even if I was walking on wet pavement for a few minutes and it wasn’t even raining. The soles also wore down really quickly (around a month), making them slippery too. They were a real nightmare.

After that bad experience, I wanted a pair of (sturdier) sneakers – something that would be less casual than runners/trainers for walking in, and preferably leather so that it could withstand normal rain without my feet getting wet. I discovered Spring Court, which made simple sneakers in canvas and leather, and were frequently reviewed as having the most impressive insoles amongst sneakers. I actually tried on several pairs and ended up purchasing the Spring Court G2 black leather sneakers and G2 navy canvas sneakers. I agree that the insoles are incredible and trumps pretty much every sneaker I’ve seen available. As pricey as they are, they are really well made and the leather is good quality. Unfortunately I found both quite stiff in the back heel and they rubbed. The canvas pair routinely cut my skin and left me bleeding. After only 3-4 wears, I decided to sell the canvas pair because there was no way I could break into them if they cut me up so badly. The fabric at the heel was too “sharp”. The leather pair is not as bad and was quite handy to take on my travels last year (they also withstood quite a lot of rain). As long as I wear appropriate socks, they’re mostly fine and I think the leather is definitely softening up.

Around the time of ordering and trying on all the Spring Court shoes, I also tried on the Adidas Gazelle leather trainers (but in grey) as they were on sale. I found them really bulky, the leather quality quite poor and overall construction really stiff.

Recently I’ve started a new hunt for sneakers because the Spring Courts are black and fairly heavy, so I wanted something slightly lighter in weight and colour that would be more appropriate in warmer seasons. I also wish the Spring Court sneakers’ heel was softer or had some padding. I ended up discovering Veja, who made supposedly high quality leather sneakers as well. I ordered and tried on the Veja Esplar white leather pair. I was so disappointed in them. The leather was incredibly stiff, but the deal breaker was that the sole was so thin and stiff my feet hurt just walking a few steps at home. Back they went and I would definitely recommend against the Esplar line.

Finally I’ve decided to purchase a keep the Lacoste Straightset Lace white leather sneakers. They have “Ortholite performance insoles”, giving them some padding although nowhere near as much as Spring Courts. Hopefully I will get on well with them!

Long overdue life update

It’s been a while!

I quickly lost the energy to blog last year as my life was taken over by work during the day and study at nights. My wonderful boyfriend, T, is credited to feeding me almost every single day. I made it through my Master’s with more grit and determination than my five years of university, finishing as one of the top graduates! I certainly feel a sense of smugness at the course coordinators who had heavily advised against students taking a full-time load while working full-time, haha. My favourite subject ended up being biostatistics, which one one of my two least favourite subjects in undergrad.

From October, I starting applying for job, though I still didn’t really know how I could get to what I wanted to do. Sharing the frustration with most applicants, I didn’t know how to get into the field to get experience when experience was an essential requirement! I had one interview but it was only a part-time role so I wasn’t too disappointed to not get the role. My Master’s finished in November and I finished off all my applications in a week before leaving for a 3-week trip to Europe. I actually had a Skype interview while there, but again didn’t get the role.

Returning to Melbourne in December, the end of my contract (there was mutual understanding that renewal was not a possibility due to funding, and I knew when I took the contract role with no renewal potential that it would be the kick in the butt I needed to move fields) and Christmas period was looming and I was officially stressed! I only had one interview lined up for after the New Year by the time Christmas rolled around and no one was advertising anymore.

I didn’t get the role in my interview after New Year’s, and had an emotional breakdown during my first week of unemployment. I’ve never been unemployed, and it was a tough time. I was really questioning my life choices and wondering whether I had wasted a year of my life pursuing something new. January was a quiet period for applications, but thankfully I did get an interview for early February, which lead to an offer a few weeks later. I started my new job on February 26. It’s been quite an adjustment from working in biomedical research to public health research. I still want to leave research, and hope this job will be a more relevant stepping stone to reach that destination.

In February, I also moved into T’s, apartment. We had decided this last year but I decided I really needed my own space to get me through my studies. Combining living arrangements and finances would help us save more money. We had wanted to rent a different apartment in his building but missed out on the single opportunity that came around in January despite offering a really long lease and quite a lot more money! We had landed on that compromise because the location of his building is better than mine, but I really wanted my green army to thrive, and his apartment unfortunately gets next to no sun. Now that I’ve moved into his apartment (and my goodness was that a struggle and a half) and I’ve been able to maintain most of my plants while giving some away, I really cannot be bothered moving apartments again! So I guess we’ll just stay here for the near future. In the meantime, I have turned my apartment into an Airbnb, a venture which is proving difficult and costly but I’ll give it some time to see if it can turn profitable.

Since then, we’ve been so busy everyday, barely managing to keep up with housework while still organising our combined junk to clear out or sell. The apartment is STILL a dumpster after almost three months! I hadn’t realised how difficult it was for two people to fit in a one-bedroom apartment, when we’ve both been living comfortably in our own apartments!

Last week, I flew up to Sydney with T and Mum for four days (with Dad joining for the middle two days) to attend my graduation ceremony. This will probably be my last tertiary degree (or at least I don’t intend to progress beyond Master’s) and UniMelb undergraduates do not get a hat (humph), so I really wanted to attend. At least I can say now I’ve attend the USyd campus! It was a lovely trip and we ate lots of good food.

We’ve just booked a short (by my standards) trip to the USA in September. Surprisingly this has probably been the hardest trip to plan, and it is likely going to be much more costly than the last two trips which were longer.

Food lately: July 2017

Pork ragu open lasagne (Romulus & Remus, Richmond)

I could only pick one outstanding dish for the month. I think this was my first open lasagne. The pasta was silky smooth, while the ragu was hearty and had a good kick of chilli too. So yummy.

Various cakes from Ganache Chocolate and Zumbo

I was spoiled by cakes last month. T kindly bought me various mini cakes for my birthday.